Is "Being Selfish" the best way to be??

It hurts to slowly realize this. The pain is excruciating with the turn of every event. We think every time it is just this one last thing, but we wud have thought so, numerous times by now and the hits never stop coming. They just keep flowing in. Well for me, I always asked for more in everything i got or did. I like it that way. But, i never had thought it wud happen this way. I kept saying enough every time it happened, but he never seems to hear my pleading, and the experiences just keep coming. Well, how many of us dont face this situation numerous times in our everyday lives?

Isn't it pretty common that everything u ever enjoyed in and wanted to do ever, slowly started looking scary and the interest and passion started fading? Have you ever asked urself this question,"how cud my world no longer be whr i wanted to be?!!".Its just too much to fathom, but with the turn of events that happen around u, we slowly but definitely realize that the ideals and the people we build our world around are completely wrong and are never permanent. They would never be the same for as long as we lived. U can never trust in people to be thr with u all the time, but can definitely trust in them to let u down. Isn't this a worldly fact?The realization of this fact occurs in a split second, and u feel a stab in ur heart.Well, as we slowly realize this, the guilt in beleiving that "the best way of being is by being selfish" gradually withers away. Only then can u be the most important for urself. Why do i say this?Why cant somebody be important for themselves naturally?

voila!!!the answer is right thr. When u cant be the most important for urself, then thr is someone else who is being that instead of u, or may be a group of people or things, for which u tend to sacrifice ur wants, to see their wants being done. Ur in dilemmas at many points, in fixes, to choose, cos there are just too many options. By being selfish and thinking only about urself, thr is just one thing to pick and that is "YoU". So, isnt it easy to see, everybody doesnt beleive in this, so no matter what thr are always ppl who wud be thr for u, but u dont have to be thr for nebody. Almost everybody in this world is not brave enough to be completely independent, they wud strive on u, but to muster up the courage and be completely only for urself, is a tough one and learning to do it is the best guide to 'experience'.